Leading Shadow

Lessons do not always necessarily come from dilemma we go through, but also by observing others' experiences. Listed below are few of my learning shared with intention of if it helps even one person avoid a mess or get out of one.

1. Wenever we come across One's story of His/her dispute with another Individual,
No matter how convincing it is,
It is still a One-sided Story!
The Flip-side could be way more Interesting, rather Eye-Opening.

An insecure person wud have more eagerness to voice out his/her story than the one who believes himself/ herself to be Clean!!
 (May 28, 2015 Thu)
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2. NO MATTER if one is Excellent in Hindi or in thr native/ regional language,
 It upsets me hw Indians are rejected frm jobs for nt possessing Excellent communication skills in English.
 (May 30, 2015 Sat)
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3.

> All Men are not Rapists

> All Women are not Money-Suckers

> All Beauties don't lack Brains.

> All Hindus are not beef-ban supporters.

> All Muslims don't favor Pak.

> All Pakistanis are not terrorists.

> Everybody in West are not racists; etc.

 Political/ Public speeches must include Disclaimers if d examples r specific, else generalization doesn't allow the Speaker to be an individual's leader, but a Crowd's Identity! & 'Crowd belongs to None'!

We are over the age f Few Individuals Representing the entire Community.
 (June 03, 2015 Wed)

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4. At times Speaking your Heart out isn't an Option. ...

But .. Learning to Find Solutions, being Mum, definitely is!
 (June 04, 2014)

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5. While feeling sad to see how Your Ex is compatible with the Present one,

Regretting for not giving a second thought while chucking him/her out of your Life.

And then being super-happy whenever he/she expresses to be still missing you!

Yeah! Be HAPPY! Not because You still have some hope left to correct your mistake!

Nor also because s/He realized your Worth.. 

But on The Decision You'd made to Move on from such CHEATERS!

Once a Relationship is committed, No matter if you change the Dp to that of You both together or not,

What matters is that no one should have even the part of the attention that only belongs to You.

Be Glad that You're not His/Her Present one who probably isn't even aware of being Cheated!
 (June 04, 2015 Thursday)

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6. We take help from People whom we believe to be belonging to us. If for any limitation, We won't be able to help them back, we would be considered as 'USING THEM'!

Because the HELP so lent, was actually a 'Business Deal', expecting a favor in exchange!

Sad, but that's how it is. So better not seek Help wen You cant Promise to be available anytime & anywhere!
 (June 16, 2015 Tuesday)
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7. When Life or certain specific situations pose a Question to us,

Its not to demoralize us with further questions:

"Why Me?" "WHAT Do I Want?" "What now?" "What's Next?"

But to Discover the answers the sooner falling situations would have, within!!

All we need is Patience & Keen Sight to Observe closely! [June 29, 2015 Monday]

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8. Until we are permanently Mute,

Let's Not Expect or Assume that the othr person would have Understood the Unspoken

None of us are perfect Mind Readers.

And we are Blessed with Speech for a Reason!!

So, 'TALK' !! [July 21, 2015 Tuesday]